Believe in your own magic. The creativity of the natural world inspires and empowers us, so make art or keep beautiful things close to you in your life and you hold the pulse of that raw earth power. Know that the world is full of a lovely & terrible duality, and that all creatures embody it.
I was married at Midsummer several years ago. I had a frothy cream colored dress, very sparkly, and made all my own decorations. Our theme was "A Midsummer Night's Dream", and I had masks and crowns and wings for everyone to wear. I told folks to wear "something dreamy", and everyone was merry far into the evening...